Take the date rape anti-violence pledge.

I pledge to abide by all sex crime statutes and acknowledge that it is my responsibility to understand what is and is not legal consent and to understand when someone is incapable of granting legal consent.

I pledge to never use guesswork or generic assumptions about the current or past behavior of others as a substitute for genuine legal consent.

I pledge to understand and respect the difference between seeking to have someone change their mind about sexual activity and coercing someone into unwanted sexual activity.

I pledge to not have sexual contact with someone who doesn't want that contact or doesn't consent enthusiastically even if that person gives explicit consent.

I pledge to understand and respect that rape through coercion or attempting to lower someone's capacity to say no is still rape even if some respectable people call it seduction.

I pledge to never force or coerce someone into any specific sexual activity even if I am sure that person will enjoy that activity.

I pledge to never use sex or sexual contact to punish or harm another person even if they consented to sexual contact.

I pledge to respect the boundaries of limited consent and previous consent and acknowledge that rape is what results if those boundaries are violated.

I pledge to hold myself to a high ethical standard even if the law fails to uphold that standard or provides loopholes so that certain rapes are legal or will never get prosecuted.

I pledge to never use the most violent rapists to rationalize less horrific sex crimes by telling myself or others that my actions didn't cause any real harm.

I pledge to take full personal responsibility for my actions and to never shift responsibility for my actions onto someone else for being sexy, vulnerable or for failing to leave when I know that person could have gotten away safely.

I pledge to stop any interaction where I find myself looking for ways to rationalize the ethics of my sexual actions or my planned sexual actions.

I pledge to stop if I find that I am being encouraged to join into an act of sexual violence or potential sexual violence even if those other people make excuses for why those future actions are acceptable.

I pledge to never ask for consent in a way that boxes the other person in.

I pledge to not lie about someone sexually violated by me or by someone else in an effort to cover up illegal or unethical behavior.

I pledge to abide by other people's conditions for consent such as requiring safe sex practices.

I pledge to respect other people's right to change their mind about sexual contact and to respect their right to have sexual contact stop immediately even if that leaves me unsatisfied.